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6) Let her come to you... don't chase her.
If you want to make friends with a cat, the best tactic is to IGNORE
IT.
Cats are interesting creatures.
Have you ever noticed that if you chase a cat, it will run... but if
you sit and ignore it, you'll soon find yourself pushing it off of
your lap?
Same goes for younger women.
Like I just mentioned, younger women have often just "escaped" from
controlling parents, structured lives, and zero freedom.
If she's attracted to you, it's not because you're creating the
environment that she just left... it's because you represent
something different.
You'll find that if you call her all the time and chase her, she'll
be harder to get a hold of, and less likely to continue to see you.
If you let her go, let her live her life, and make yourself more
scarce, you'll be more likely to have her pursuing YOU.
Be the man that she's always dreamed about, and then don't chase
her.
7) EXPECT her to change.
If you're dating a woman between the ages of 18 and 23, you need to
remember that her life is probably going to change DRAMATICALLY over
the next few years.
You need to keep an open mind, and not try to restrict or hinder her
options.
You need to expect and even encourage her to grow, change, and
become all she can be.
The reality is that the chances are SLIM that she's going to be with
you in a few years.
In fact, the chances are slim that she's even going to be the same
person in a few years.
Get over it, and be OK with it.
Challenge her to grow, achieve, and be her best... and don't accept
second-class behavior from her.
But she's going to change, so expect it.
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